Jsou mezi n\u00e1mi. Jsou v\u0161ude. Blb\u00fd je m\u00edt je doma. Psychopaty. Kdy\u017e se s nimi potk\u00e1te, hned m\u00e1te hor\u0161\u00ed den. Jestli nic nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed, z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 po nich jenom \u0161patn\u00fd pocit. Kdy\u017e s\u00a0nimi m\u00e1te cokoliv spole\u010dn\u00e9ho, m\u00e1te t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 jistotu, \u017ee se budou sna\u017eit (a mnoh\u00fdm se to povede) vys\u00e1t z\u00a0v\u00e1s nejprve optimismus, pak sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a nakonec ve\u0161kerou energii.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Dostala jsem se z\u00a0jejich sp\u00e1r\u016f. A byl to hnusn\u00fd, vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed a idiotsk\u00fd souboj s\u00a0lidmi, s nimi\u017e jsem musela b\u00fdt, ale dobrovoln\u011b bych si je za p\u0159\u00e1tele nebo kamar\u00e1dy nikdy nevybrala. \u010cas str\u00e1ven\u00fd\u00a0odr\u00e1\u017een\u00edm jejich \u00fatok\u016f, manipulac\u00ed a pomluv byl \u010dasem ztracen\u00fdm.<\/p>\n

N\u011bkdo by mi \u0159ekl: \u201eAspo\u0148 ses n\u011bco dov\u011bd\u011bla o sob\u011b! Ber to pozitivn\u011b.\u201c<\/p>\n

Pozitivn\u011b? A\u017e n\u011bkdy jindy<\/h2>\n

Pozitivn\u011b se to prost\u011b br\u00e1t ned\u00e1. Jestli se m\u011b n\u011bkdo sna\u017eil nap\u0159ed pon\u00ed\u017eit a pak \u00fapln\u011b zni\u010dit, tak to i kdy\u017e m\u00e1m velk\u00fd smysl pro humor, mi ani tro\u0161i\u010dku pozitivn\u00ed nep\u0159ipad\u00e1. Pro psychopatick\u00e9 jedn\u00e1n\u00ed nem\u00e1m jedinou omluvu (a jestli ti \u201echud\u00e1ci\u201c m\u011bli t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed, tak a\u0165 se jdou s\u00a0t\u00edm n\u011bjak vypo\u0159\u00e1dat). Nem\u00e1m pro n\u011b sl\u016fvko pochopen\u00ed a nechci je u\u017e m\u00edt ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b.<\/p>\n

Mus\u00edm ale \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee jsem m\u011bla to \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, \u017ee to nebyl \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd m\u016fj partner. Tak\u017ee takto na bl\u00edzko jsem psychopata nepoznala. D\u00edky alespo\u0148 za to!!!<\/p>\n

Jak se to dalo p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt? Za\u010dala jsem je zkoumat jako probl\u00e9m, jako h\u00e1danku, jako hlavolam. Nep\u0159\u00edtele je t\u0159eba poznat, a tak jsem je pozorovala. Nep\u0159\u00edtele v\u00a0tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b sice nelze porazit jeho zbran\u011bmi (to bych musela b\u00fdt psycho taky), ale je mo\u017en\u00e9 se \u00fa\u010dinn\u011b br\u00e1nit.<\/p>\n

Osud zas\u00e1hl<\/h2>\n

A mimochodem, n\u011bco o sob\u011b jsem se p\u0159ece jenom dov\u011bd\u011bla. Sice se rad\u00ed, aby se \u010dlov\u011bk v\u016f\u010di takov\u00e9mu druhu lid\u00ed vymezil, mn\u011b to ale tady p\u0159ipadalo zbyte\u010dn\u00e9. Respektive jsem to n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t ud\u011blala, ale v\u00fdsledek byl o to hor\u0161\u00ed. Nakonec ode\u0161li sami, prost\u011b \u017eivot je odv\u00e1l jinam. A dal\u0161\u00ed pou\u010den\u00ed? I trp\u011bliv\u00e9 \u010dek\u00e1n\u00ed je zp\u016fsob, jak se situac\u00ed nalo\u017eit.<\/p>\n

Jsem ze sv\u00e9 podstaty bojovn\u00edk. Bylo t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 p\u0159ijmout fakt, \u017ee nebojovat neznamen\u00e1 prohr\u00e1t. U\u010dila jsem se trp\u011blivosti a pozornosti.<\/p>\n

No, ale jestli je to to pozitivn\u00ed, co jsem si m\u011bla odn\u00e9st, pak bych prosila p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed lekci tro\u0161ku m\u00e9n\u011b dramatickou a vyhrocenou. Ale o tom v\u0161em je\u0161t\u011b nap\u00ed\u0161u.<\/p>\n

Ud\u011bl\u00e1m to, \u017ee spoj\u00edm sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti, odborn\u00e9 znalosti, kter\u00e9 jsem na\u010derpala i s\u00a0my\u0161lenkami lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se za psychopaty pova\u017euj\u00ed. Je jich docela dost, na\u0161la jsem n\u011bjak\u00e9 jejich str\u00e1nky na netu. Nejsou to lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed byli vy\u0161et\u0159eni odborn\u00edky. Jsou to lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed sami sebe vn\u00edmaj\u00ed jako jin\u00e9. P\u0159esto to, co p\u00ed\u0161ou, je cesta, jak si uv\u011bdomit ten propastn\u00fd rozd\u00edl mezi psychopatem a \u010dlov\u011bkem, kter\u00fd c\u00edt\u00ed emoce.<\/p>\n

Co by asi tak \u0159ekl psychopat k \u00favodu? Asi tohle (voln\u011b cituji):<\/p>\n

„Tyhle \u010dl\u00e1nky jsou dost jednostrann\u00e9 v\u010detn\u011b ozna\u010den\u00ed psychopat. To je jako bychom o odboj\u00e1\u0159\u00edch \u010detli jen ze z\u00e1znam\u016f gestapa. M\u00e1m celkem dost v\u011bdomost\u00ed a ur\u010dit\u00fd p\u0159ehled. Fakticky mysl\u00edm jinak. Je to vrchol evoluce lidsk\u00e9ho druhu. Ale vzhledem k\u00a0ur\u010dit\u00fdm destruktivn\u00edm charakteristik\u00e1m mus\u00edme b\u00fdt nutn\u011b v\u00a0populaci na n\u00edzk\u00e9 po\u010detn\u00ed \u00farovni. Kdyby n\u00e1s, pred\u00e1tor\u016f, bylo v\u00edc, tak by to vypadalo asi, jako kdy\u017e d\u00e1te \u010dty\u0159i \u0161t\u00edry do jednoho akv\u00e1ria<\/em>.“<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

P\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b o tom, jak je pozn\u00e1me.<\/p>\n

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