Docela dlouho jsem si myslela, \u017ee dv\u011b osoby, kter\u00e9 nemaj\u00ed empatii, se nem\u016f\u017eou vz\u00e1jemn\u011b sn\u00e1\u0161et. Ale \u017eivot mi uk\u00e1zal, \u017ee se po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b pletu. M\u016f\u017eou se sn\u00e9st, m\u016f\u017eou spolupracovat, m\u016f\u017eou dokonce vytvo\u0159it jakousi synergii, kter\u00e1 je pro n\u011b dost komfortn\u00ed, kde\u017eto pro jejich okol\u00ed tak\u0159ka nesnesiteln\u00e1.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Kdy\u017e jsem se sna\u017eila pochopit, jak dva bezcitn\u00ed m\u016f\u017eou spole\u010dn\u011b fungovat<\/strong>, p\u0159i\u0161la mi do ruky kn\u00ed\u017eka s n\u00e1zvem Akta Hitler. Tuto p\u016fvodn\u011b tajnou slo\u017eku sestavili pro Josifa Stalina na jeho p\u0159\u00edm\u00fd p\u0159\u00edkaz z v\u00fdslech\u016f Hitlerova osobn\u00edho pobo\u010dn\u00edka Otto G\u00fcnscheho a komorn\u00edka Heinzhe Lingeho, kte\u0159\u00ed byli v\u011bzn\u011bni po 2. sv\u011btov\u00e9 v\u00e1lce. Tito mu\u017ei byli Hitlerovi cel\u00e1 l\u00e9ta velice bl\u00edzko, znali detailn\u011b jeho program, jeho reakce, jeho my\u0161len\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Publikace je velmi obs\u00e1hl\u00e1, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e vztah dvou dikt\u00e1tor\u016f shrnul v \u00favodu prof. Horst M\u00f6ller, \u0159editel Institutu soudob\u00fdch d\u011bjin. Tito dva m\u011bli b\u00fdt nep\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9, ale byly to v z\u00e1sad\u011b sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bn\u00e9 du\u0161e?<\/p>\n

Den\u00edky Hitlera (a Goebbelse) hovo\u0159\u00ed o tom, \u017ee nacistick\u00fd v\u016fdce \u201espat\u0159oval ve Stalinovi g\u00e9nia, k n\u011bmu\u017e je nutn\u00e9 m\u00edt v ka\u017ed\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b respekt.\u201c P\u0159\u00edzna\u010dn\u00e1 je tak\u00e9 Hitlerova charakteristika, \u017ee \u201ekdy\u017e je Churchill \u0161akal, pak je Stalin tygr.\u201c A to nejsou slova o n\u011bkom, koho pova\u017eujeme za nep\u0159\u00edtele \u010d\u00edslo jedna.<\/p>\n

Stejn\u011b tak Stalin p\u0159ik\u00e1zal vysl\u00fdchat dva nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed \u017eij\u00edc\u00ed spolupracovn\u00edky Hitlera po dobu t\u0159\u00ed let, z \u010deho\u017e vzniklo 413 strojopisn\u00fdch stran nejen o politice a v\u00e1le\u010dnictv\u00ed, ale i o osobn\u00edch zvyc\u00edch a dokonce i drbech.<\/p>\n

\u010c\u00edm se tedy vz\u00e1jemn\u011b tito dva fascinovali? Bezpochyby krutost\u00ed a tvrdost\u00ed<\/strong>. Oba v\u011b\u0159ili, \u017ee n\u00e1rody pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed v\u016fdce s tvrdou rukou. Kdo koho ovlivnil v\u00edc, to u\u017e se m\u016f\u017eeme jenom dom\u00fd\u0161let. S\u00e1m za sebe mluv\u00ed i n\u00e1zev jednoho z filmov\u00fdch dokument\u016f: Hitler a Stalin, tyransk\u00e1 dvoj\u010data. V \u00favodn\u00edm slovu se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: \u201eOba se pot\u0159ebovali. Sledovali vz\u00e1jemn\u011b svou kari\u00e9ru. Respektovali se a dokonce obdivovali krutost toho druh\u00e9ho. Vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 porovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed povzbuzovalo jejich ambice.\u201c<\/p>\n

Co mi tento exkurz do minulosti m\u016f\u017ee \u0159\u00edct o situaci, kdy jsem pod vlivem (sp\u00ed\u0161 tlakem) dvou bezcitn\u00fdch lid\u00ed? Rozhodn\u011b se nem\u016f\u017eeme na jejich vztah d\u00edvat vlastn\u00ed optikou nebo prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm vlastn\u00edch pravidel. Oni hraj\u00ed podle sv\u00fdch. Ur\u010dit\u011b nelze \u010dekat, \u017ee by se za n\u011bco zastyd\u011bli<\/strong>, proto\u017ee stud jim nen\u00ed vlastn\u00ed, neznaj\u00ed ho. Budou se vz\u00e1jemn\u011b inspirovat ve \u0161patnostech<\/strong>. A pokud je budou vym\u00fd\u0161let, opravdu nen\u00ed o co st\u00e1t. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee si p\u0159esn\u011b rozd\u011bl\u00ed \u00falohy, p\u0159esn\u011b ur\u010d\u00ed, jakou \u00falohu komu p\u0159isoud\u00ed, jak je p\u0159im\u011bj\u00ed ji splnit. A jak zosnuj\u00ed pomstu, kdy\u017e to nedopadne. Nepochybn\u011b se vz\u00e1jemn\u011b uji\u0161\u0165uj\u00ed v tom, kdo (pochopiteln\u011b je dva vyj\u00edmaje) m\u016f\u017ee na ne\u00fasp\u011bch.<\/p>\n

Vybrala jsem si z\u00e1m\u011brn\u011b tyto dva dikt\u00e1tory, proto\u017ee od nich m\u00e1me emo\u010dn\u00ed odstup, tud\u00ed\u017e si m\u016f\u017eeme l\u00e9pe p\u0159edstavit, jak\u00fd vz\u00e1jemn\u00fd obdiv k sob\u011b chovali. Nebylo to p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed ani l\u00e1ska. A bohu\u017eel tak\u00e9 v\u00edme, kolik \u0161kod dok\u00e1zali nap\u00e1chat v dob\u011b, kdy m\u011bli moc. V dob\u011b, kdy lid\u00e9 hledaj\u00ed inspiraci, pozitivn\u00ed podn\u011bty nebo radost, je i dost t\u011bch, kter\u00fdm nic \u0161patn\u00e9ho nen\u00ed dost \u0161patn\u00e9. Op\u011bt to souvis\u00ed s moc\u00ed. Proto p\u00ed\u0161u tyto \u0159\u00e1dky, abychom dok\u00e1zali rozpoznat a posl\u00e9ze odstranit takto toxick\u00e9 lidi ze sv\u00e9 bl\u00edzkosti.<\/p>\n

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Ani tentokr\u00e1t nem\u016f\u017ee chyb\u011bt citace lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed o sob\u011b \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee jsou psychopati:<\/p>\n

„Existence pred\u00e1tor\u016f m\u00e1 sv\u016fj smysl a to, \u017ee ho \u00b4b\u011b\u017en\u00ed lid\u00e9\u00b4 nedovedou pochopit, je jejich probl\u00e9m. Kdybychom nebyli, byla by to velk\u00e1 \u0161koda. V\u017edy\u0165 by pak nem\u011bl kdo lidem panovat a v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pot\u0159eby i p\u0159i\u0161krtit kysl\u00edk. Jinak se fenom\u00e9nu sv\u011bdom\u00ed v\u011bnuji u\u017e del\u0161\u00ed dobu a mus\u00edm konstatovat, \u017ee tak primitivn\u00ed sebeomezov\u00e1n\u00ed a neschopnost zd\u016fvodnit si svoje \u010diny, je \u00fapln\u011b uboh\u00e9. Nen\u00ed divu, \u017ee n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed p\u0159ed smrt\u00ed na\u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee ni\u010deho nedos\u00e1hli. Oni by mohli, jen jim v tom zabr\u00e1nilo jejich vlastn\u00ed j\u00e1. Prost\u011b ironie.“<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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