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{"id":1168,"date":"2018-12-09T22:29:51","date_gmt":"2018-12-09T20:29:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cerstva50.cz\/?p=1168"},"modified":"2021-02-05T11:20:37","modified_gmt":"2021-02-05T09:20:37","slug":"manipulaci-psychopati-pouziji-vuci-tem-kdo-jim-mohou-neco-poskytnout","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/cerstva50.cz\/manipulaci-psychopati-pouziji-vuci-tem-kdo-jim-mohou-neco-poskytnout\/","title":{"rendered":"Manipulaci psychopati pou\u017eij\u00ed v\u016f\u010di t\u011bm, kdo jim mohou n\u011bco poskytnout"},"content":{"rendered":"

Manipulace m\u00e1 mnoho podob a je to siln\u00e1 zbra\u0148 proti n\u00e1m. Zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 kdy\u017e jsme zvykl\u00ed b\u00fdt \u201ejedni\u010dk\u00e1\u0159i\u201c. Pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m toto ozna\u010den\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e1 tro\u0161ku jinak, ne\u017e jej pou\u017eil autor knihy Pro\u010d jedni\u010dk\u00e1\u0159i pracuj\u00ed pro trojka\u0159e. Jedni\u010dk\u00e1\u0159 je podle m\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed ten, kdo je zvykl\u00fd na pochvalu u\u010ditelky. A v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b je u\u010ditelkou prakticky kdokoliv. Kdokoliv, komu to my dovol\u00edme. Komu jsem to dovolila.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vr\u00e1t\u00edm se k\u00a0\u010dl\u00e1nku Pozn\u00e1me psychopaty na prvn\u00ed pohled<\/a>? Tam je \u010d\u00e1st o lichocen\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se pod\u00edv\u00e1m, jak psychopati a manipul\u00e1to\u0159i umn\u011b vyu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed na\u0161i pot\u0159ebu b\u00fdt chv\u00e1len\u00ed, mus\u00edm se u toho zastavit. Jsem si jist\u00e1, \u017ee p\u0159i prvn\u00ed lichotce, respektive p\u0159i m\u00e9 prvn\u00ed reakci na prvn\u00ed lichotku poznaj\u00ed, jestli jsem vhodn\u00e1 ob\u011b\u0165 nebo ne. Po\u0159\u00e1d plat\u00ed, \u017ee jsou velice soci\u00e1ln\u011b zdatn\u00ed (sp\u00ed\u0161 prot\u0159el\u00ed) a um\u00ed ode\u010d\u00edtat na\u0161e emoce<\/strong>, i kdy\u017e si o nich mysl\u00ed jenom to nejhor\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

A abych to ud\u011blala je\u0161t\u011b o n\u011bco slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, p\u0159ipomenu souvislosti. V\u00a0motiva\u010dn\u00edch \u010dl\u00e1nc\u00edch a knih\u00e1ch \u010dteme, \u017ee se m\u00e1me obklopit lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1s podporuj\u00ed, naopak odstranit ty, kte\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1s zrazuj\u00ed od na\u0161ich sn\u016f a c\u00edl\u016f. Jen\u017ee ty \u010dl\u00e1nky \u010dtou i bezcitn\u00ed. A pr\u00e1v\u011b tady mus\u00ed vid\u011bt svou \u0161irokou d\u00e1lnici k\u00a0ovl\u00e1dnut\u00ed druh\u00e9ho pr\u00e1v\u011b prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm vyjad\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed podpory, ocen\u011bn\u00ed. A\u0165 d\u011bl\u00e1te, co d\u011bl\u00e1te, na za\u010d\u00e1tku usly\u0161\u00edte: \u201eNo ty jsi fakt \u00fa\u017easn\u00e1 s\u00a0t\u00edm, co d\u011bl\u00e1\u0161. Obdivuju t\u011b,\u201c \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, ale p\u0159itom to ani na vte\u0159inu nemysl\u00ed v\u00e1\u017en\u011b.<\/p>\n

V\u00a0takov\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch je t\u0159eba m\u00edt se na pozoru. Jestli mi tohle \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, ani\u017e by m\u011b znal, ani\u017e by v\u011bd\u011bl n\u011bco o m\u00e9 minulosti, m\u00e9m v\u00fdvoji, tak je na m\u00edst\u011b maxim\u00e1ln\u00ed opatrnost<\/strong>. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to mysl\u00ed \u201ejenom\u201c dob\u0159e, mo\u017en\u00e1 j\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edm prostor pro manipulaci. Co je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 v\u011bd\u011bt: stejn\u011b jako poznaj\u00ed, \u017ee jim sk\u00e1\u010du na \u0161pek, tak velmi dob\u0159e zaregistruj\u00ed, \u017ee v\u00e1h\u00e1m<\/strong>. A to je m\u016f\u017ee odehnat k\u00a0jin\u00e9 ob\u011bti.<\/p>\n

Znaj\u00ed pozitivn\u00ed my\u0161len\u00ed a mluv\u00ed o n\u011bm<\/h3>\n

Sna\u017e\u00edm se \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee n\u011bkdy m\u00e1me kolem sebe dobr\u00e1ky, co n\u00e1m vyjad\u0159uj\u00ed podporu, ani\u017e by mysleli cokoliv zl\u00e9ho. Jsou to mil\u00e1\u010dci, co si na\u010detli motiva\u010dn\u00ed \u010dl\u00e1nky a sna\u017e\u00ed se p\u016fsobit dobro. O nich nep\u00ed\u0161u. Tihle lid\u00e9 nezk\u0159\u00ed\u017e\u00ed nikomu ani vl\u00e1sek. Ale je pot\u0159eba v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee jsou na sv\u011bt\u011b i ti druz\u00ed.\u00a0 M\u016f\u017eu to uk\u00e1zat na dal\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edkladu. Zat\u00edmco pozitivn\u00ed kamar\u00e1d bude \u0159\u00edkat: \u201eTob\u011b to slu\u0161\u00ed,\u201c tak manipul\u00e1tor to \u0159ekne jinak: \u201eTa modr\u00e1 ti slu\u0161\u00ed, tu nos!\u201c anebo jinak: \u201eU\u017e nikdy si neber tu zelenou!\u201c Vn\u00edm\u00e1te ten rozd\u00edl? Je to jejich zp\u016fsob poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/strong> Asi jako kdy\u017e pes sn\u00ed n\u011bco, co m\u00e1me na stole. Zkou\u0161\u00ed z\u00edskat dominanci.<\/strong> Stejn\u011b tak bezcitn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk reaguje, zkou\u0161\u00ed, nejde do \u201evztahu\u201c po hlav\u011b. Mus\u00ed se mu to vyplatit. A na n\u00e1s je, abychom ho odhalili v\u010das<\/strong> a taky v\u010das utekli.<\/p>\n

Psychopat se chov\u00e1 tak, \u017ee on jedin\u00fd v\u00ed, co je pro n\u00e1s nejlep\u0161\u00ed. (Pozor, to ale d\u011blaj\u00ed dominantn\u00ed lidi po\u0159\u00e1d, jestli se takhle chov\u00e1, nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt nutn\u011b bezcitn\u00fd psychopat. P\u0159esto takov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed dlouho nevydr\u017e\u00edme.)<\/p>\n

Nebo v\u00a0seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed: \u201eTy si zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 toho nejlep\u0161\u00edho mu\u017ee, co t\u011b bude na rukou nosit,\u201c \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee ten nejlep\u0161\u00ed mu\u017e je samoz\u0159ejm\u011b on. Nebo ona. Ale ruce si s\u00a0n\u00e1mi nikdy nezat\u00ed\u017e\u00ed. Maxim\u00e1ln\u011b si je zat\u00ed\u017e\u00ed na\u0161\u00edm majetkem (pokud n\u011bjak\u00fd m\u00e1me, co\u017e oni zjist\u00ed velice rychle).<\/p>\n

Co by \u0159ekli lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed se ozna\u010dili za psychopaty? Asi toto (cituji voln\u011b):<\/p>\n

\u201eKdy\u017e vid\u00edm, \u017ee mohu \u010dlov\u011bka n\u011bjak vyu\u017e\u00edt, nebo mi m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bjak pomoci, udr\u017euji s n\u00edm kontakt. A poslouch\u00e1m, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, jak to \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, vyhodnocuji, porovn\u00e1v\u00e1m, sna\u017e\u00edm se pochopit, jak p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed. Dokud na to nep\u0159ijdu, reaguji neutr\u00e1ln\u011b a m\u00edrn\u011b, abych ho n\u011bjak nerozhodil. D\u0159\u00edv nebo pozd\u011bji si ho p\u0159e\u010dtu a komunikaci p\u0159evedu na jeho vlnovou d\u00e9lku. Pak p\u0159ijde to, \u010demu \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed manipulace. J\u00e1 rad\u011bji \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m p\u0159itla\u010den\u00ed.<\/em>\u201c<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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