N\u011bkdy m\u00e1m dojem, \u017ee jsem \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l m\u00ed\u0148 tolerantn\u00ed k\u00a0slovn\u00edm banalit\u00e1m, k\u00a0balastu, kter\u00fdm si \u201ezapl\u0148ujeme\u201c konverzaci. Slova a v\u011bty, kter\u00e9 vlastn\u011b nic neznamenaj\u00ed.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00e1m sv\u00e9ho favorita, t\u00edm je v\u011bta: \u201eJsi siln\u00e1 \u017eensk\u00e1, ty to zvl\u00e1dne\u0161, j\u00e1 ti v\u011b\u0159\u00edm.\u201c D\u011bkuju p\u011bkn\u011b. Kdy\u017e tohle sly\u0161\u00edm nebo \u010dtu, tak si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m: \u201eAno, j\u00e1 to zvl\u00e1dnu, ale ty u\u017e u toho nebude\u0161.\u201c<\/p>\n

Hloup\u00e1 slova a v\u011bty, kter\u00e9 m\u011b nut\u00ed reagovat, ale p\u0159itom nen\u00ed na co. Na banalitu reagujeme dal\u0161\u00ed banalitou, a tak se hal\u00edme do slov a v\u011bt, kter\u00e9 jsou k\u00a0ni\u010demu.<\/p>\n

Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee takov\u00e1 obrovsk\u00e1 banalita je soucit (nepl\u00e9st se souc\u00edt\u011bn\u00edm, empati\u00ed). Soucit je slovn\u00ed vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed toho, \u017ee je n\u00e1m n\u011bco l\u00edto. \u201eJe mi l\u00edto, \u017ee t\u011b to potkalo.\u201c No, tak pr\u00e1v\u011b, je n\u00e1m to l\u00edto? Ano. Jen\u017ee co ten chud\u00e1k, kter\u00e9ho to potkalo (a\u0165 u\u017e cokoliv). On m\u00e1 sm\u016flu a nav\u00edc mus\u00ed \u010delit na\u0161emu sd\u011blen\u00ed, \u017ee s\u00a0t\u00edm m\u00e1me taky probl\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Tak\u017ee soucit \u2013 v\u011bta, kter\u00e1 toho, kdo ji vyjad\u0159uje, v\u016fbec nic nestoj\u00ed, a z\u00e1rove\u0148 tomu druh\u00e9mu absolutn\u011b nepom\u016f\u017ee.<\/p>\n

Nebo takov\u00e9 to ripov\u00e1n\u00ed. N\u011bkdo um\u0159e, j\u00e1 ho neznala, jen jsem o n\u011bm sly\u0161ela, tak\u017ee RIP. Jednoduch\u00e9. A\u017e moc.<\/p>\n

Nebo: Karma je zdarma<\/strong>. Tahle v\u011bta postupn\u011b pln\u00ed internet. Copak si nikdo neuv\u011bdomuje, jak je pitom\u00e1? A ti, kdo ji pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed, tu\u0161\u00ed, co znamen\u00e1? Karma je z\u00e1kon p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny a n\u00e1sledku. Tud\u00ed\u017e i kdyby bylo v\u0161echno zadarmo, karma nebude.<\/p>\n

Ale mo\u017en\u00e1 si to moc beru. Zn\u00e1m\u00fd, kter\u00fd je o mnoho let mlad\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e jsem j\u00e1, se m\u011b jednou zeptal: \u201eA kdy\u017e odhl\u00e9dne\u0161 od v\u011bku, l\u00edbil bych se ti jako chlap?\u201c<\/p>\n

Ta ot\u00e1zka ve mn\u011b vyvolala paniku. Kdy\u017e \u0159eknu, \u017ee ne, uraz\u00ed se. Kdy\u017e \u0159eknu, \u017ee jo, tak co kdy\u017e to vezme v\u00e1\u017en\u011b? N\u011bco jsem koktala, \u017ee to tak nem\u016f\u017ee br\u00e1t, \u017ee to je d\u011bsn\u011b zjednodu\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed ot\u00e1zka. (Sakra, u\u017e z\u00a0t\u011bchle v\u00fdmluv mohl pochopit, \u017ee NE. Nepochopil a zeptal se znovu.)<\/p>\n

Ze m\u011b vyl\u00edtla pravda: \u201eNE!\u201c<\/p>\n

Vzal to docela state\u010dn\u011b, ale hlavn\u011b se u\u017e v\u00edc neptal.<\/p>\n

Jsem se pozd\u011bji o tom bavila se zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi. Vrtalo mi hlavou, pro\u010d v\u016fbec takovou ot\u00e1zku pokl\u00e1d\u00e1, v\u017edy\u0165 nemohl nic z\u00edskat. Se mi trochu sm\u00e1li. Pr\u00fd, pro\u010d o tom p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm? Nechci nikomu ubli\u017eovat, i kdy\u017e je to pravda, \u017ee by se mi fakt nel\u00edbil (jak bych mohla obdivovat n\u011bkoho, kdo se prohl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed v\u00a0zrcadle d\u00e9le, ne\u017e j\u00e1!!!!).<\/p>\n

\u201eAle to byla jenom slova,\u201c zn\u011blo vysv\u011btlen\u00ed. \u201eNikdo s\u00a0tebou chodit necht\u011bl.\u201c<\/p>\n

Taky jsem nepochopila.<\/p>\n

\u201eM\u011bla jsi \u0159\u00edct n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho,\u201c dal\u0161\u00ed reakce.<\/p>\n

\u201eA co jako?\u201c pt\u00e1m se.<\/p>\n

\u201eT\u0159eba, \u017ee kdybys byla o dvacet let mlad\u0161\u00ed, tak bys neodolala,\u201c pov\u00eddaj\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u201eAha, tak\u017ee \u00faplnou pitomost?\u201c<\/p>\n

\u201eJojo.\u201c<\/p>\n

Tak\u017ee jsem pro jistotu dal\u0161\u00edmi banalitami zaplnila kus internetu a m\u016f\u017eu klidn\u011b sp\u00e1t, anebo p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let nad jin\u00fdmi banalitami. T\u0159eba jak v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b rozli\u0161it d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 od ned\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n

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