Dlouho jsem si myslela, \u017ee v\u011bta \u201eTak vy mi ned\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujete, to si tedy vy\u0159\u00edd\u00edme!\u201c byla jenom \u0161patn\u00fd vtip. N\u011bco, co bylo vy\u0159\u010den\u00e9 ve vzteku a bez rozmyslu. Jen\u017ee omyl. Je to jedna z typick\u00fdch situac\u00ed, do kter\u00fdch se ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee s psychopatem dostat.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Kdy\u017e tak proch\u00e1z\u00edm vlastn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti s t\u00edmto druhem lid\u00ed, tak mi \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l t\u00edm v\u00edc p\u0159ipad\u00e1 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 um\u011bt je v\u010das poznat<\/strong>. V jejich jedn\u00e1n\u00ed jsou chv\u00edle, kdy zablik\u00e1 varovn\u00e9 sv\u011bt\u00fdlko, ale kdo z n\u00e1s ho hned poslechne, \u017ee? P\u0159itom jde o zd\u00e1nliv\u00e9 mali\u010dkosti. V tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b o rozd\u00edl mezi p\u0159irozenou d\u016fv\u011brou a slepou v\u00edrou.<\/p>\n

Kdy\u017e o nich budeme ps\u00e1t teoreticky, bude to v\u0161em jasn\u00e9. D\u016fv\u011bra v druh\u00e9ho m\u00e1me, kdy\u017e v\u00edme, \u017ee se na n\u011bj m\u016f\u017eeme spolehnout<\/strong>. Jedno p\u0159\u00edslov\u00ed \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee d\u016fv\u011bra se \u010dasto z\u00edsk\u00e1 bez z\u00e1sluh a ztrat\u00ed bez p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny. I tak je to mo\u017en\u00e9. Dokonce se m\u016f\u017eeme v\u011bdom\u011b rozhodnout, \u017ee n\u011bkomu svou d\u016fv\u011bru sv\u011b\u0159\u00edme. Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b to je n\u011bco, co jde ode mne ke druh\u00e9mu.<\/p>\n

Slep\u00e1 v\u00edra je \u00fapln\u011b z jin\u00e9ho soudku. Chci si uleh\u010dit rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed? Chci \u017e\u00edt bez odpov\u011bdnosti? Tak m\u016f\u017eu d\u011blat to, co po mn\u011b n\u011bkdo vy\u017eaduje a hlavn\u011b nep\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let<\/strong>! A takov\u00e9 by n\u00e1s psychopati cht\u011bli m\u00edt. Pitom\u00e9, poslu\u0161n\u00e9 a tv\u00e1rn\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Jen tak mimochodem, mysl\u00edte, \u017ee on d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uje v\u00e1m? Ani n\u00e1hodou! To by d\u011blal ostudu sv\u00e9mu jm\u00e9nu. P\u0159ece kdy\u017e chci n\u011bkoho manipulovat, mus\u00edm ho kontrolovat. A kdy\u017e n\u011bkoho kontroluju, tak to d\u011bl\u00e1m z ned\u016fv\u011bry.<\/p>\n

Prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm na\u0161\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bry n\u00e1mi psychopat manipuluje.<\/strong> Na za\u010d\u00e1tku vztahu ud\u011bl\u00e1 v\u0161echno proto, aby d\u016fv\u011bru vzbudil. Skute\u010dn\u011b je p\u0159esn\u00fd, dr\u017e\u00ed sliby, a co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, tak\u00e9 ud\u011bl\u00e1. Ze za\u010d\u00e1tku. Jakmile se za\u010dne c\u00edtit pevn\u00fd v kramflec\u00edch, bere v\u0161e do sv\u00fdch rukou. P\u0159ekra\u010duje sv\u00e9 meze, nehraje podle pravidel, l\u017ee, parazituje jak na citech, tak na majetku. To v\u0161e bez uzard\u011bn\u00ed a bez jedin\u00e9 v\u00fd\u010ditky. Ne\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edte, \u017ee tohle je jin\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, ne\u017e kter\u00e9ho jste poznali, m\u00e1te probl\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Vztah za\u010dne b\u00fdt nesm\u00edrn\u011b vysiluj\u00edc\u00ed, v jeho p\u0159\u00edtomnosti se c\u00edt\u00edte fyzicky \u0161patn\u011b, p\u0159itom sly\u0161\u00edte jeho sladk\u00fd t\u00f3n, kter\u00fdm \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: \u201eNikdo ti nem\u016f\u017ee d\u00e1t to, co j\u00e1 ti sl\u00edb\u00edm\u2026\u201c<\/p>\n

Sladk\u00fd hlas, sladk\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed, sladk\u00e9 sliby,\u2026 a pak krut\u00e1 pravda. Proto u\u017e v\u017edycky budu opatrn\u00e1, komu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uji a komu ne. On \u010dlov\u011bk i po takov\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti mus\u00ed m\u00edt v sob\u011b s\u00edlu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat. Ale taky v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee jak bude hlubok\u00fd m\u016fj cit, tak hlubok\u00e1 m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt r\u00e1na po n\u011bm<\/strong>, kdy\u017e se to nepovede. Proto je dobr\u00e9 j\u00edt kr\u016f\u010dek po kr\u016f\u010dku a neposp\u00edchat, necht\u00edt v\u0161echno hned.<\/p>\n

A co by k t\u00e9matu napsali ti, kdo o sob\u011b \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee jsou psychopati? Mo\u017en\u00e1 toto:<\/p>\n

„Kdy\u017e chci vypadat jako norm\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, nem\u00e1m probl\u00e9m naj\u00edt si holku. Je z\u00e1bavn\u00e9 sledovat jej\u00ed v\u00fdraz v o\u010d\u00edch, kdy\u017e se na m\u011b d\u00edv\u00e1, jak reaguje na moje podn\u011bty, jej\u00ed radost, smutek, reakce na moje p\u0159ede\u0161l\u00e9 \u010diny. Jen neum\u00edm pochopit, pro\u010d se chov\u00e1 tak iracion\u00e1ln\u011b, otev\u00edr\u00e1 se ciz\u00edmu \u010dlov\u011bku, to mi ned\u00e1v\u00e1 smysl. J\u00e1 jsem se je\u0161t\u011b nikdy nikomu neotev\u0159el.<\/em>.“<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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