To by se zd\u00e1lo, \u017ee kdy\u017e jsou tak jin\u00ed, divn\u00ed, nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00ed, mus\u00edme p\u0159ece na prvn\u00ed dobrou pochopit, \u017ee od nich rad\u011bji d\u00e1l. Jen\u017ee to je fakt omyl. Nejenom \u017ee jsou psychopati dokonale maskovan\u00ed, um\u00ed b\u00fdt okouzluj\u00edc\u00ed.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tak jak na to jdou? Nap\u0159ed mus\u00ed z\u00edskat va\u0161i d\u016fv\u011bru<\/strong>. Tak\u017ee jsou mil\u00ed, p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed s pozornostmi, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m d\u011blaj\u00ed radost, sna\u017e\u00ed se n\u00e1m lichotit. A pr\u00e1v\u011b tohle m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt jeden ze sign\u00e1l\u016f. Ur\u010dit\u011b se n\u00e1m v\u0161em stalo, \u017ee n\u011bkdo, koho vlastn\u011b nezn\u00e1m, za\u010dal tvrdit, \u017ee jsem: kr\u00e1sn\u00e1, mil\u00e1, \u00fa\u017easn\u00e1, jin\u00e1 ne\u017e ostatn\u00ed \u017eeny, zaslou\u017e\u00edm si l\u00e1sku \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9ho mu\u017ee, zaslou\u017e\u00edm si to nejlep\u0161\u00ed,… bla, bla, bla.<\/p>\n

Jednodu\u0161e, psychopat pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 obecn\u00e9 fr\u00e1ze a lichotky, kter\u00e9 jsou tak mali\u010dko p\u0159es \u010d\u00e1ru, ale jenom mali\u010dko. Sice n\u00e1m v hlav\u011b zablik\u00e1 varovn\u00e9 sv\u011bt\u00e9lko, ale kdy\u017e ono je to vlastn\u011b p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 poslouchat.<\/p>\n

Hraj\u00ed si s na\u0161\u00ed d\u016fv\u011brou<\/h2>\n

Pot\u00e9, co z\u00edsk\u00e1 d\u016fv\u011bru, ji upev\u0148uje. V zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed velk\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch<\/strong>, v osobn\u00edm vztahu sezn\u00e1men\u00ed s rodinou, kamar\u00e1dy, exkluzivn\u00ed dovolen\u00e1,…<\/p>\n

Ve t\u0159et\u00ed f\u00e1zi zjist\u00ed, \u017ee mu budouc\u00ed ob\u011b\u0165 d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uje, ale u\u017e neprov\u011b\u0159uje<\/strong>, co je pravda a co ne. Sv\u00e9 o tom v\u011bd\u00ed ve firm\u00e1ch, kde jim psychopat nad\u011blal \u0161kodu. M\u011bl tam takovou d\u016fv\u011bru, \u017ee nikoho ani nenapadlo kontrolovat, co d\u011bl\u00e1, jak nakl\u00e1d\u00e1 s daty a podobn\u011b.<\/p>\n

Pak p\u0159ijde psychopatick\u00fd atak. H\u00e1dka, manipulace, ve firm\u011b zpronev\u011bra. A v\u0161ichni si \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed: tomu nem\u016f\u017eu v\u011b\u0159it, ur\u010dit\u011b jde o n\u011bjak\u00fd omyl.<\/p>\n

\u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd omyl<\/h2>\n

Ano, v\u011b\u0159\u00ed se tomu skute\u010dn\u011b t\u011b\u017eko. Nav\u00edc norm\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk hned za\u010dne hledat chybu u sebe. Ptala jsem se: co jsem mu\/j\u00ed ud\u011blala? To mus\u00ed b\u00fdt n\u011bjak\u00fd omyl. M\u00e1m okolo sebe slu\u0161n\u00e9 lidi, poznala bych, kdyby ne. Nepoznala jsem to<\/strong>. Jen jsem ob\u010das m\u011bla divn\u00fd pocit, zablikalo varovn\u00e9 sv\u011bt\u00fdlko, n\u011bco nebylo v po\u0159\u00e1dku, ale byly to v\u017edy jemn\u00e9 nuance. Nic z\u00e1sadn\u00edho.<\/p>\n

Vztah s takov\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem je jako na houpa\u010dce.<\/strong> Bu\u010f \u00fapln\u011b naho\u0159e, anebo \u00fapln\u011b dole. Radila bych ut\u00e9ct hned, jak \u010dlov\u011bku dojde, \u017ee n\u011bco nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku. Ne, vlastn\u011b bych radila d\u00edvat se kolem a pokusit se rozkl\u00ed\u010dovat n\u011bkter\u00e9 lidi d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e si je pust\u00edm do \u017eivota. Ale tohle v\u017edycky nejde. Nap\u0159\u00edklad kdy\u017e jdete do nov\u00e9ho zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Co by o sob\u011b \u0159ekli oni? Nap\u0159\u00edklad tohle:<\/p>\n

„Jsem pro v\u011bt\u0161inu mu\u017e\u016f siln\u011b p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e1 osoba. V l\u00e1sce chci dokonalost a d\u00e1m neskonalou v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148, pocit nadp\u0159irozen\u00e9ho milov\u00e1n\u00ed, nebesky n\u00e1dhern\u00e9 rozko\u0161e. D\u00e1m mu z\u00e1plavu nekone\u010dn\u00fdch vzru\u0161en\u00ed, on se odevzd\u00e1 a je v r\u00e1ji. Pro m\u011b je to tak\u00e9 n\u00e1dhern\u00e9, proto\u017ee nechci ka\u017edodenn\u00ed nudn\u00fd \u017eivot. Jo, jasn\u011b, \u017ee z nebesk\u00e9 rozko\u0161e je \u010dek\u00e1 peklo, v n\u011bkter\u00e9 momenty jsem krve\u017e\u00edznivej pes, kdy\u017e u\u017e m\u011b nem\u00e1 ten doty\u010dn\u00fd co d\u00e1t. V\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1 n\u011bjakou bolest jinou ne\u017e j\u00e1. Pak zas \u010dek\u00e1m ob\u011b\u0165 a jsem dost vyb\u00edrav\u00e1, c\u00edt\u00edm se jako up\u00edr, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 hlad. Je to \u0161\u00edlen\u00e9, v\u011b\u0159te mi…<\/em>.“<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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