Jestli se potk\u00e1te s\u00a0psychopatem, zaru\u010den\u011b si za\u010dnete kl\u00e1st tuto ot\u00e1zku. Dokonce budete sami sebe podez\u00edrat, \u017ee nejste dostate\u010dn\u011b sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, vypo\u0159\u00e1dan\u00ed se svou minulosti, neste dost pozitivn\u00ed, anebo jste jinak divn\u00ed, kdy\u017e jste si p\u0159ivedli takovou osobu do \u017eivota.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u0158eknu v\u00e1m hned na za\u010d\u00e1tku, \u017ee s\u00a0v\u00e1mi nen\u00ed nic \u0161patn\u011b (tedy pokud v\u00e1s u\u017e t\u0159et\u00ed man\u017eel\/ka fyzicky net\u00fdr\u00e1, to pak je jin\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh). Jste v\u00a0po\u0159\u00e1dku, jen jste byli ve \u0161patn\u00fd \u010das na \u0161patn\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b jste z\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu ve\u0161li do m\u00edst, kde jich je v\u00edc, ne\u017e je zdr\u00e1vo (a nen\u00ed to jenom v\u00a0politice).<\/p>\n

Druh\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka, kter\u00e1 p\u0159ijde, je: \u201ePro\u010d mi to proboha d\u011bl\u00e1?\u201c No, a za t\u00edm jdou dal\u0161\u00ed my\u0161lenky: v\u017edy\u0165 jsem mu\/j\u00ed nic neud\u011blala, co blbne, jak m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt tak zl\u00fd\/\u00e1\u2026<\/p>\n

Jak jsem sl\u00edbila, tady je bajka o \u017e\u00e1b\u011b a \u0161t\u00edrovi, kter\u00e1 naprosto vysv\u011btluje, pro\u010d psychopat ubli\u017euje lidem kolem:<\/p>\n

Na b\u0159ehu \u0159eky stoj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1ba a \u0161t\u00edr. Oba se cht\u011bj\u00ed dostat na druh\u00fd b\u0159eh. Jen\u017ee \u0161t\u00edr neum\u00ed plavat, a tak za\u010dne p\u0159emlouvat \u017e\u00e1bu: vezmi m\u011b na z\u00e1da, pot\u0159ebuju nutn\u011b na druhou stranu,\u201c pros\u00ed. \u017d\u00e1ba mu pov\u00edd\u00e1: \u201eBoj\u00edm se, \u017ee m\u011b zabije\u0161, \u017ee jsi zl\u00fd.\u201c To se \u0161t\u00edr ohrad\u00ed: \u201eAle nem\u00e1\u0161 se \u010deho b\u00e1t, nebodnu t\u011b, to bychom um\u0159eli oba.\u201c<\/p>\n

To \u017e\u00e1bu dost uklidn\u00ed, u\u017e nevid\u00ed nebezpe\u010d\u00ed, a tak \u0161t\u00edra nalo\u017e\u00ed na z\u00e1da a plave. Kdy\u017e u\u017e jsou skoro u druh\u00e9ho b\u0159ehu, najednou c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee ji \u0161t\u00edr bodnul. Oba se za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed topit. Z\u00a0posledn\u00edch sil se \u017e\u00e1ba pt\u00e1: \u201ePro\u010d to d\u011bl\u00e1\u0161?\u201c A \u0161t\u00edr z\u00a0posledn\u00edch sil odpov\u00ed: \u201eProto\u017ee jsem \u0161t\u00edr.\u201c<\/p>\n

Tahle bajka p\u0159esn\u011b vystihuje psychopata. Neptejte se, pro\u010d to d\u011bl\u00e1. On prost\u011b mus\u00ed. U v\u011bt\u0161iny lid\u00ed hled\u00e1te motivy jejich chov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u00a0h\u00e1jen\u00ed si sv\u00fdch z\u00e1jm\u016f, u psychopata je to \u00fapln\u011b stejn\u00e9. Ale abych dok\u00e1zala odhadnout, co ud\u011bl\u00e1 (a \u00fa\u010dinn\u011b se br\u00e1nit), musela jsem si bez p\u0159\u00edkras uv\u011bdomit, co jsou psychopatovy z\u00e1jmy. Je to moc. Moc nad druh\u00fdmi, ovl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed situace nebo tot\u00e1ln\u00ed manipulace k\u00a0jeho moci vedouc\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Co by \u0159ekli o sob\u011b? Asi toto (cituji voln\u011b):<\/p>\n

„Jsme odli\u0161n\u00ed. Vy pot\u0159ebujete n\u00e1s a my pot\u0159ebujeme v\u00e1s. \u0160tve m\u011b, jak o n\u00e1s v\u0161ude hovo\u0159\u00edte jako o n\u011bjak\u00fdch sadistick\u00fdch monstrech, co nemaj\u00ed nic lep\u0161\u00ed na pr\u00e1ci, ne\u017e v\u0161em ni\u010dit \u017eivoty. Pravda je, \u017ee va\u0161e \u017eivoty jsou mi ukraden\u00e9. A um\u00edm m\u00edt r\u00e1da lidi, ale jen ty, co si moji l\u00e1sku zaslou\u017e\u00ed!<\/em>.“<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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